Family

There are few people who disagree with the statement “nothing is more important than family”, however, the responsibilities and changing circumstances, both in your close knit and extended families, can be very trying at times. One of the most difficult times in family life are the “sandwich” years—that time when you are still caring for your children as they get ready to leave the nest and also taking care of aging parents who are beginning to depend on you more and more for some of their basic needs. There are a number of things you can do, with my help, to find the time to be there for your family and still make time for yourself. (Hint: maintaining a sense of humor is very important, as is finding a sanctuary to get away from it all.)

The challenge of being a single parent
As a single parent, it is perfectly OK to ask for help during those times when you are simply overwhelmed trying to do everything on your own. You do not have to be Superman or Superwoman. Why so shy about reaching out for help? Sometimes, it is just a matter of learning how.

Blended families
The process of trying to determine the role you play in a blended family can be confusing. As a stepfather, do you discipline someone else’s children and in what way? Is it OK to let your step daughter call you mom? What is the best way to ease into such a new and different family situation? You can find the answers here. When two parents decide to divorce, it is important to remember that the children involved are rarely part of the decision. This can lead to anger, confusion, a sense of abandonment and growing animosity. My work with families centers around the skills and techniques needed to create a harmonious family atmosphere, no matter how difficult the situation. In particular, honest and positive relationships between children and their parents set the tone for a great family life.