How to Become a True Survivor

Whether it’s a health challenge, a divorce or an unexpected change in career, a true survivor draws on their problem-solving skills, an honest assessment of the situation and a dose of courage when times get tough. And you can do the same.

A survivor is always fully aware of the situation they are in
Having a full understanding of the current situation is key in making the best of it and coming out a survivor in the end. How long will this particular challenge last? What are your options? What needs to be done first? What kind of help do you need and who can provide that help? These are all important questions to ask yourself. Breaking things down into simple steps can help you from feeling overwhelmed.

Rely on facts rather than emotions
It might be crushing to be laid off, especially if it’s unexpected. But doing your best to set your emotions aside and focus on what has to be done can be a key to your survival. The fact of the matter is no longer have a job. And prospects seem pretty slim. But your options are facts as well. How about hiring someone to help you through the transition or asking a friend to help you with your job search? You could do back to school or consider starting your own business.

Be prepared for anything that may come your way
This does not mean that a true survivor only thinks of the worst. On the contrary, they focus on the positive side of life and so should you. Yet, having played out a few worst scenarios in your mind is a great way to prepare for the unexpected. Ask yourself what’s the worst that can happen and build from there. Being prepared also means having important resources at hand such as your business network, a rainy day savings account or emergency fund and a list of professionals you can turn to for help.
Reach out and ask for help Survivors aren’t shy! They ask for help without hesitation when they truly need it. When things are tough, you sometimes have to put aside a little bit of pride and focus on what needs to be done. You’ll find that most people are incredibly helpful and understanding. Why? Because they’re been in your shoes! And they can truly empathize with you.

Choose to survive no matter what
A strong will and your own stubborn determination are your best friends. If you keep a steady eye on resolving your difficulties (including visualizing what it will be like once the storm has passed), you will get there.

If you understand your situation, rely on the facts, tap your resources and ask for help, you’ll not only become a true survivor, you’ll be prepared for anything life sends your way!